How I could give you a big orgasm, with multiple aftershocks, using techniques you may not have tried before!

We start by hugging and kissing each other.

After some small talk, you have me lay flat on my back. You walk on the bed, with your feet on both sides of me. You get to my face, then turn around to where you face my feet. Then, you sit flat on top of my face.

You smother it with your butt and you smother my nostrils with your butt-hole. But, you don't suffocate me, as you enjoy my catching my breath right on your pussy. My breath flows around your labia and against your clit.

This was part one of pre pussy eating foreplay. You get up and slip your breasts into my mouth. You suck in some air, then sigh as I start suckling. You cradle me as the suckling pleasure vibrates from your breasts to your whole body.

You get on your back and I start eating your pussy. You suck in some air and start hissing with pleasure. You compliment me as I work your orgasm up, then you start humping my face until you explode. Your body shakes and you start cussing and swearing in pleasure.

Then I slide myself into you, and you coo with pleasure. Your breathing rhythm changes as I slide deeper and deeper into you until I explode inside you.

But, it's not over yet.

After I wipe myself clean, you turn over and present your butt to me. I lay down behind you, spread your butt cheeks, and put your butt hole into my mouth. My tongue flicks clockwise, then counter clockwise around your anal ring. I suck it in and out, then I shove my tongue into your butt hole and stir it around inside.

You could feel your clit throbbing. After multiple orgasms, you give me a chance to gargle and swallow beer. I quickly lay on my back, then you sit flat on top of my face again. My tongue darts through your labia and onto your vibrating clit. I catch my breath between licking your pussy, giving you a double pleasure "hit."

It doesn't take long before you explode in yet another orgasm. After having enough, you give me a physical signal with your hands, and I stop licking.

We end up the same way we began, you sitting flat on top of my face, smothering it with your butt.

You spend the rest of the time using my face as your seat cushion as you do things you normally do while seating, like drinking, eating, texting, watching TV, etc... not caring about my comfort or dignity.

Use pictures to ask for a facesit

You're in a room with a beautiful, hot woman, and you're about to have sex. She's sexy...one look at her butt and you simply have to have it on your face. You can't wait to feel her full weight behind that butt. So you work up the courage to ask her to sit on your face.

She climbs on top of you, straddles your face, and stops short of placing her bottom on your face. You're thinking, "She's not sitting on my face!" And she's thinking, "I'm sitting on his face!"
One way to cut the confusion is with a picture; this picture should show a woman sitting on a man's face. Mistress Destiny's Femdom Forums and other facesitting websites have facesitting pictures. They show the different ways you could get your face sat on. Pick the picture that shows how you like to get your face sat on, then print a copy of it. Keep it where you could retrieve it.

The next time you're in a situation where you're about to ask a woman to sit on your face, grab that picture. Show it to her and ask her if she could sit on your face that way.

What drives you wild when women sit on your face?

It's very hard to zero in on why having a hot woman's butt on one's face drives one over the top.

For me, it's very erotic. One of the prettiest sights a man could see is a woman's butt right before she sits on his face. This could start many ways, even in the car. The woman places one of her feet on the seat, and leaves the other one on the floor.

The man starts in the sitting position, lays down on his back, and passes her beautiful perfume and makeup smell. He slips his head under the woman's hovering butt and looks up. Her butt is over his face, with her panties slid down, and pants slid further down her legs.

Her butt starts to lower and he smells her butt crack as her butt gets closer to his face. First, he feels her butt press against his face, then increasing pressure as her weight pushes her butt down on his face, then he feels her sitting full weight.

This could also happen on the sofa, bed or floor.

The anticipation is enough to make you drool; the experience drives you wild. This goes beyond erotic. It makes you feel "humiliated" in a good way, it's the kind of "humiliation" that could make your "member" stand tall. The idea that she's breathing comfortably, and smelling fresh air while you're struggling for air under her turns both of you on.

Facesitting is so erotic, that if a woman sits on a man's face just right, the man could orgasm without manual, vaginal or other manipulation.

There's something deep and instinctive about having a hot woman's butt on your face. When a woman sits on my face, it turns a switch on inside me that make me want to eat her out with my heart, mind and soul. In many cases, having her butthole on top of my nostrils gives my tongue full access to her entire labia and clitoris.

The women could sense this, as they get in the groove, respond like they've never been eaten out, then "return the favor" by giving me the intercourse "of my life."

The bottom line is this; it's hard to "put one's foot" on why having a woman's butt on one's face drives them over the top. It's a turn on. It's an erotic experience that's hard to explain.

What's neat is that the women that get into facesitting get reciprocal satisfaction with sitting on someone's face. They have an equally hard time "putting their foot" on why sitting on someone's face drives them over the top.

A woman can amplify your orgasm by sitting on your face

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How I like to have women sit on my face

Hi ladies, this one is for you. This isn't to offend or to get you exited, but to express how I like to have my face sat on.

Believe it or not, there are many ways to sit on a guys face, and guys have different ways they'd like to get their faces sat on.

When most guys ask for facesitting, they're asking the woman to do a mustache ride. The woman isn't really "sitting" in a mustache ride, just "squatting" with her pussy in the guy's mouth. When she looks down, she sees his mustache curving above her view of her pussy.

It's like she's on a motorcycle and the mustache is the "handlebar." Usually, when I ask women to sit on my face, they try to do the mustache ride. When I ask them to turn around, they try to do the "chin ride," which is the opposite to a mustache ride.

Neither constitutes a "true" facesit.

I prefer the full weight reverse facesit. This is where the woman sits flat on top of the man's face with all her weight, the way she'd normally sit on a chair or stool. Her butthole is smothering his nostrils, her butt crack is smothering the length of his nose from base to nose-bridge, and his eyebrows are either under or just outside her butt cheeks. His mouth is under her pussy and giving her oral pleasure.

When a woman sits on my face that way, she turns a "switch" on that makes me eat her out better than what I'd normally do. Don't get me wrong. I could drive a woman up the wall, trembling and shaking, as a result of eating her out while she's on her back and has her legs spread.

But, when she's sitting flat on top of my face as I've just described, I could bring her to an orgasm faster than she'd normally orgasm; and make her feel like she's never had her pussy eaten out.

Every woman I've eaten out this way became addicted to the idea of sitting on my face to get a good pussy eating. They've even gotten into the groove, shaking their butts back and forth, causing my body and the bed to rock back and forth.

Now, I don't ask every woman that I have intercourse with to sit on my face. My facesitting fetish is woman activated; she has to fit a specific "type." For me, that's the white woman with an appearance ranging from "cute" to "hot." I give hot white women another kind of oral servicing that I'll cover in an upcoming post.

My facesitting fetish is connected to sexual attraction.

What is Facesitting? Part V Facesitting Mischief and Accidents

Mischief, the passed out victim:

A woman had too much to drink, she passes out. She's out cold, no matter what anybody does, she won't wake up. She's got a pulse, she's breathing, almost snoring, she's just not responsive to attempts to wake her up.

One of her girlfriends watches this from the side; then motions another girlfriend to ready her camera. She walks toward the passed out woman, and straddles her head, facing her feet. She drops her pants and panties, and parks her butt on the passed out woman's face. She doesn't block her friend's mouth, so the passed out woman continues to breath.

Her friend snaps pictures capturing the scene; they can't wait till they show the face sat woman what happens when you have too much to drink.

Accident, butt lands on face:

A man holds a ladder steady while the woman uses it to check one of the higher shelf books out. Then she slips on the rung and slides down. The man looks up in time to see her butt back onto his face. Her momentum continues, knocking both to the ground. The man collapses and the woman lands on top of him, her butt on top of his face. She's shaken, and doesn't realize what just happened until she feels movement under her.

What is Facesitting? Part IV Fantasy Role Play

Many men have fantasies involving women sitting on their faces. This post lists two of these facesitting fantasies.

A freshman's fantasy:

A college freshman isn't doing to well in his class. But, he needs to pass as he can't afford to fail. Failure means suspension from his sports team, or being de-pledged from his fraternity due to failure to maintain a 2.0 overall G.P.A.

The freshman goes to his professor, and begs her to reconsider his grades, give him extra credit, or do something to ensure that he passes his class. The professor decides to take advantage of her student's vulnerability. "Sure!" She says, "I'll give you a chance to do extra credit, but there's something you'll have to do before I even think about it!"

The freshman says, "Thank you, I'll do anything!" The Professor tells him to lie down on the floor so that she could sit flat on top of his face. The freshman tries to protest, but after the professor refuses to change her mind, he humiliatingly gets into the position and watches her bare bottom land on his face. The rest of the fantasy sees the freshman "suffering" in "humiliation" while bearing his hot professor's butt on his face.

Every time he catches his breath, she stops looking through his paper. Every time the professor is sitting flat on top of his face, and he's holding his breath, she looks through his paper to give his points back. She takes her time.

The bored worker's fantasy after seeing a hot woman working in human resources:

A guy comes in for his interview, which progresses as job interviews normally go. The interviewer, the same hot woman, says that she's impressed with the guy's application, cover letter and resume. Now she wanted to see how he handles "BS."

She orders him to lie on her sofa, then she sits on his face while working on her laptop. She rubs her butt back and forth on the sittee's face and says, "If you could take this, you could handle any office stress!"

There are more facesitting fantasies as well. One thing they have in common is that the fantasy has a dominant woman abusing her position, rubbing it in, or simply facesitting for the sake of facesitting. The abuse is in the form of her sitting on the "subordinate's" face as a condition for a favor, as a prerequisite for a favorable action or as punishment.

These fantasies can be translated into real life role plays with a dominant woman.

What is facesitting? Part III facesitting domination

Facesitting domination is when the woman forces her butt on a man or woman's face. Other BDSM words used for facesitting are forced facesitting, forced cunnilingusbatio and queening. In regular BDSM scenes, dominas or mistresses whip, flog, or spank their slaves or submissives. They administer this "discipline" for arbitrary, real or imagined infractions.

In forced facesitting, punishment involves the woman forcing her butt on the slave's face. Instead of punishing her sub with pain, or trampling, she punishes her sittee with facesitting humiliation. This humiliation involves forcing her butt crack, or pussy, onto the submissive's nose or mouth.

Women also use facesitting in BDSM scenes involving objectification. The sittee's face becomes nothing more than a place to park her butt on, as if she were sitting on a regular chair, sofa cushion or bar stool.

When she's sitting on a person's face, she does the things she normally does when she sits down; eat a meal, watch TV, work on her computer, read a book, have a phone conversation with a friend or make out with someone. She usually plops, or sits, on the face as if it were no different than a regular chair; she doesn't give the sittee any kind of human acknowledgement. The sittee's face is her seat cushion.

Facesitting is also used for smothering. The woman sits on the person's face, and blocks the sittee's breathing passages. The woman could smother than person's nostrils with her butthole, and his mouth with her pussy; or she could smother the person's nostrils with her pussy, and his mouth with her butthole.

The facesitting woman prevents the sittee from breathing, and controls when he could breath. She suffocates her face chair, waits for him or her to struggle, waits beyond that, then lifts her butt or pussy a little. Or the sittee struggles free, breaths a few seconds, then gives in as the woman force facesits him again.

Many women aren't comfortable with breath control, so they use a different kind of breath play.

They sit on the man or woman's face, and completely seal the sittee's mouth with her pussy. Every time the sittee needs to breath, the facesitting woman lifts her butt up just a tad. The sittee's nose is still in the facesitting woman's buttcrack. The sittee has no other choice but to aggressively inhale while his or her nose is still in the dominant woman's butt.

The sitter can add to the humiliation. She could wait till her face chair struggles, then lift her butt just a little. Her pussy seals his mouth shut, and his nose is still inside her butt crack. The sittee inhales large gulps of precious air right when the facesitting woman farts. With no other way to breath, and no chance of moving somewhere else, the sittee has two choices. He could signal the woman to sit back down and smother him while he's short of breath, or he can continue to get as much air in as possible.

The woman could refuse to sit back down, and listen as her sub inhales and exhales large volumes of her fart.

When a woman uses facesitting in domination, she's showing her power and superiority over the face sittee. She "humiliates" her submissive in a pleasurable way, and she gets gratification just for doing it.

Facesitting women don't have to worry about whether they'll get their pussies or buttholes eaten out or not. All they have to do is place either into a sittee's mouth and demand oral service.

What is Facesitting? Part II Facesitting as a sex act

You can use face sitting five different ways: Foreplay, domination, fantasy role play, mischief or accident. Part II of my "What is Facesitting?" series covers facesitting as part of sexual foreplay.

Facesitting involving pussy eating is the easiest, and one of the best, ways to make a woman orgasm. If she has a person's face trapped under her butt, she's in control. She places her pussy's most erotic parts in the sittee's mouth. If she's reverse facesitting, the guy's tongue has access to her entire pussy area, inside and out.

The facesitting woman gets an ego boost when she feels a person's nose inside her butt crack. When this happens, the person getting facesat doesn't have to wait. The sitting woman's pussy gets wet just by her sitting on his face. The sittee catching his breath under the woman's pussy tempts her to "masterbate" herself on the sittee's mouth.

Once the sittee starts pussy licking and sucking, it doesn't take long for the facesitting woman to orgasm.

Eating pussy is easy for a man or woman getting their faces sat on. The sittee doesn't get neck or shoulder strain, and their tongue can pleasure the entire pussy. This is very relaxing and erotic. If you enjoy getting your face sat on, you could eat the woman out until she orgasms. You'll feel like you could eat her out "indefinitely."

A woman's butt on a man's face turns a switch on in him, one that activates a primal desire to eat that facesitting woman's pussy out with pure passion and instinct.

The woman could also facesit to receive annalingus; she plants her butthole in the sittee's mouth. The sittee starts rimming her while she shakes her hips and grinds the sittee's mouth with her butthole and anal ring.

The facesitting woman gives verbal and intimate hints that she's enjoying the pussy eating. Many women grab the sittee's hands and lock fingers with him; or clasp the sittiee's hand, palm to palm, while holding his wrists with her fingers. They could caress the sittee's arms or body, or reach out and give the sittee a hand job.

She could give "sounds" to indicate that she's feeling good, like huming, hissing, or inhaling and exhaling aggressively.

The facesitting woman shakes her butt back and forth on the sittee's face, as she feels more pleasure. But, since there's a tight seal between the woman's butt and the sittee's face, the sittee's body and bed tend to shake back and forth in response.

Cunnilingusbatio is a word that describes a person eating a woman's pussy out while she's sitting on his face.

What is Facesitting? Part I Basic Definition

Face sitting is when one person sits on another person's face. Any gender can be the face sitter and any gender can be the facesit recipient. "Face chair" and "face sittee" are other terms for the person getting his or her face sat on. This article, or post, talks about a woman sitting on a man's or a woman's face.

Women sit on faces different ways.

Frontal Facesit:

In the frontal facesit, the woman sits flat on top of the man's face with her back to his feet. The face sittee could see the woman's face, belly and breasts, if she's receiving cunnilingus. If she wants annalingus, she could scoot forward so that her butthole is in the face sittee's mouth, and her vagina is on the face sittee's nose area.

Reverse Facesitting:

For reverse facesitting, the woman sits flat on top of the person's face while facing his feet. If she wants cunnilingus, she sits with her pussy in the person's mouth. If she wants annalingus, she sits with her butthole in the person's mouth.

Depending on the woman's butt size, or if her butthole is in the sittee's mouth, the sittee might be able to see her back and part of her hair. Or, it could be lights out, with her butthole smothering his nostrils, pussy smothering his mouth, and butt-crack smothering his nose bridge.

Sideways facesitting:

The guy is usually laying on a bench, or on the side of a bed or sofa. The woman treats the man's face like a seat cushion. She sits on his face with one of her shoulders pointing toward his feet, and the other one pointing the same direction the top of the face sittee's head is pointing to.

Full facesitting:

Full facesitting is when the woman's "center of butt gravity" is on top of the center of the man's face. There are differences in agreement on where that could be. But, there's a general rule of thumb. If she's reverse facesitting him, then her butthole would be on his nostrils or mouth. If she's frontal, or sideways, facesitting, then her butthole would be in the man's mouth.

The face chair's face takes the majority, or all, of the woman's sitting weight.

Partial facesitting:

When the woman does partial facesitting, her face sitting weight is offset from the center of the man's face. Examples of this include a woman's sitting on the man's forehead, on his chin or to the side of his "mouth to nostril" axis.

Extreme partial facesitting positions aren't really facesitting.

In some frontal facesitting pictures, the woman is actually sitting on man or woman's neck, upper chest and partly on the chin. In some sideways facesitting pictures, the woman's butt is actually hanging over the man or woman's cheeks. Her legs, and maybe her pussy, are smothering the sittee's face. In some reverse facesitting pictures, the woman's tailbone is on the man's chin.

These extreme cases are better labeled as chin sitting, or smothering via leg use.

The hover:

"Hover" is when the woman "sits" on the guy's face without applying her full weight; and without full butt to face contact. The mustache ride is an example. She's "hovering" above his face while he eats her out.

Full weight facesit:

This is where the woman sits flat on top of the man or woman's face, resting her full sitting weight on the sittee's face.

There's a reason to why a man's nose fits the butthole area of a woman's butt crack like a jigsaw puzzle. For women that are worried about breaking a man's nose; your butthole, and anal ring area, feel like a massive cushion. If you sit your butthole on the face chair's nostrils, you could put tremendous weight on his face, and you'd still not damage his nose.

Facesitting classification:

Facesitting is named after what the woman wears, or doesn't wear, while using a person's face as a seat cushion. Jean sitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face while wearing her jeans. Nylon facesitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face while wearing her nylons. Panty facesitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face while she's wearing her panties.

Bare bottom facesitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face with her bare butt.

Other forms of facesitting involve spandex facesitting, wedding dress facesitting, pants facesitting, leather facesitting, uniformed employee facesitting, formal suite facesitting, bikini facesitting, thong facesitting, etc.

How to Get Facesat copy post update

"How to Get Facesat" copy-post update. I previously sent an Email to the website that had my Mistress Destiny's Femdom Forum post. They've credited me as the author of that article, and the Mistress Destiny's forum as the source. So, not everybody has foul intentions.

Other "how to get facesat" posts on the internet

In 2007, I wrote an article on "how to get facesat" for publishing on ehow.com via a client website. I went through the normal "request and approve" process. Ehow approved the article, I wrote and submitted it, and ehow.com published it.

I wanted to share my knowledge so that more people can get their faces sat on. The more this knowledge spreads, and the more women engaged in it, the easier it'd be for the next facesit fan to get face sat. The ultimate goal is to make real facesitting a mainstream bedroom practice.

Since I posted on Mistress Destiny's Femdom Forums Websites, I started a post, and left a link to that Ehow article. The other posters loved it, and helped me rate it highly.

Then ehow.com took the article down. I asked a Mistress Destiny's Femdom Forum's moderator to delete the link to prevent ehow.com from receiving further "clicks." About a year and a half later, the same moderator started a thread dedicated to how to get facesat.

I took my ehow.com article draft, and expanded it to explain everything I wanted to explain. I posted the result as a detailed post to that thread, and helped it receive thousands of page hits. That's not the only sign that people liked that post.

I found a website that plagiarized other people's work. I found my post in their "facesitting mistress home" section. They didn't credit me as the author, or link back to Mistress Destiny's Femdom Forums. I post on Mistress Destiny's as "herfacechair." You'd notice my writing on the, "How to Get Facesat" post, as well as on my other posts on that site.

My writing there is also consistent with my writing here.

This other website also plagiarized from Wikipedia, taking their "facesitting" article, word for word, and posting it on their website. They failed to site Wikipedia as the source site.

I had to mention this here.

My "How to Get Facesat" post on this blog, and the one on Mistress Destiny's, is my own work. I'm the original author. Don't get me wrong, I like that the word is getting out. I just don't want the reader to think that I'm not being original or that I'm "stealing" other people's work. When it comes to writing, credit has to be assigned where it's due.

How to get facesat the next time you have intercourse

Here's how easy it is. If you've talked a woman into doing 69, you can guide her into facesitting you.

Get your girlfriend/wife into a 69 position with you. Make sure you're on the bottom. Or, if she likes to start out by going down on you, pull her so that her pussy is over your face. Then pull it into your mouth and start "eating."

Let me back up for a second.

You should be good at cunnilingus. If not, you should hold this facesitting trick off until you could eat her out good. If you're willing to take your time down there, and she sees that you enjoy it, she'll give you feedback on how to eat her out better.

Different women are receptive to different techniques. This is important, as you want to drive her wild before easing her into sitting on your face.

You want to get to where you could give her the oral service of her life. The better you get at this, the harder it'll be for her to concentrate on going down on you. Also, the harder it'll be for her to resist your guiding her to sitting on your face.

So, when you push her up at a 45 degree angle to you, she'll slightly be relieved. But don't miss a beat, keep eating her out. She'll ignore the challenge of returning the favor. That won't last long, she'll try to dive back down again; don't let her.

Stop her, and nudge her back up, while keeping the tongue beat on her snatch. Most the time, she'll comply and just enjoy the ride. Some will try to go back down on you. Again, nudge her back up.

Wait till she starts moaning. Keep eating her out, then gradually get her into a "sitting" position. She should be sitting on your face lightly. Some will sit with all their weight. If they don't, as long as she's sitting on your face, you're ahead of the game.

She'll be so into your eating her out that your efforts won't faze her.

Continue eating her out, and driving her up the wall. When she really gets into the groove of things, pull her butt down hard onto your face.

Now, one of two things could happen here. She'll gladly relax her weight on your face... then shake her hips back and fourth as she grinds your face with her butt. This'll happen a lot of times.

Or, she could "resist" a little and remain sitting lightly on your face.

Don't panic.

Keep eating her out at the right spots.

You have an advantage, as your tongue has access to all her erogenous zones, including her clitoris. It won't take you long to bring her off to a powerful orgasm. She might try to dismount you before reaching an orgasm... don't let her escape. Hold her hips tightly and keep eating her out until she orgasms.

If this was her first time, talk to her afterwards. Let her know how much that turned you on...even though she didn't do anything to you in return except sit on your face. She wants to please you to. She'll learn that facesitting is one of the easiest ways to orgasm.

She'll also know that facesitting is key to her getting a good pussy eating.

Now, if you didn't get her to sit on your face fully, let her know that having her butt near your face was a turn on. Let her know that she smelled great down there as well.

She also might have issues with full weight facesitting; she doesn't want to hurt you.

So, if you've had a heavier woman facesit you before, let her know that. Let her know that this woman sat on your face real hard, with her full weight. Don't lie either, if this didn't happen, let her know that you'd stop her if she was sitting too hard.

You want to dispel her fears of crushing you; tell her that you doubt that she could sit on your face that hard. Don't get me wrong, if she's facesitting to hard, stop her...but keep her where she's sitting the hardest that you could handle.

Let her know that no matter how hard she sits, it won't discomfort you. Even let her know that you'd let her facesit you after she used the bathroom. When she's busily basking after a good orgasm, she won't think that you're all too strange.

I've found that every woman that I've broken into facesitting, who happens to be the type of woman I want sitting on my face, became a facesitting "monster" after the first face sit.

Some will gradually get there, but it doesn't take long. Even with the most resistant women, I've managed to get their butt over my face to where my nose was in their butt crack...while I enjoyed the aroma. In these extreme cases, do the same thing. Let her know how much of a turn on that was, and that you'd hope that she'd sit flat on top of your face the next time.

Do this trick, and you'll spend the majority of your pussy eating career eating women out while being facesat.