What is facesitting? Part III facesitting domination

Facesitting domination is when the woman forces her butt on a man or woman's face. Other BDSM words used for facesitting are forced facesitting, forced cunnilingusbatio and queening. In regular BDSM scenes, dominas or mistresses whip, flog, or spank their slaves or submissives. They administer this "discipline" for arbitrary, real or imagined infractions.

In forced facesitting, punishment involves the woman forcing her butt on the slave's face. Instead of punishing her sub with pain, or trampling, she punishes her sittee with facesitting humiliation. This humiliation involves forcing her butt crack, or pussy, onto the submissive's nose or mouth.

Women also use facesitting in BDSM scenes involving objectification. The sittee's face becomes nothing more than a place to park her butt on, as if she were sitting on a regular chair, sofa cushion or bar stool.

When she's sitting on a person's face, she does the things she normally does when she sits down; eat a meal, watch TV, work on her computer, read a book, have a phone conversation with a friend or make out with someone. She usually plops, or sits, on the face as if it were no different than a regular chair; she doesn't give the sittee any kind of human acknowledgement. The sittee's face is her seat cushion.

Facesitting is also used for smothering. The woman sits on the person's face, and blocks the sittee's breathing passages. The woman could smother than person's nostrils with her butthole, and his mouth with her pussy; or she could smother the person's nostrils with her pussy, and his mouth with her butthole.

The facesitting woman prevents the sittee from breathing, and controls when he could breath. She suffocates her face chair, waits for him or her to struggle, waits beyond that, then lifts her butt or pussy a little. Or the sittee struggles free, breaths a few seconds, then gives in as the woman force facesits him again.

Many women aren't comfortable with breath control, so they use a different kind of breath play.

They sit on the man or woman's face, and completely seal the sittee's mouth with her pussy. Every time the sittee needs to breath, the facesitting woman lifts her butt up just a tad. The sittee's nose is still in the facesitting woman's buttcrack. The sittee has no other choice but to aggressively inhale while his or her nose is still in the dominant woman's butt.

The sitter can add to the humiliation. She could wait till her face chair struggles, then lift her butt just a little. Her pussy seals his mouth shut, and his nose is still inside her butt crack. The sittee inhales large gulps of precious air right when the facesitting woman farts. With no other way to breath, and no chance of moving somewhere else, the sittee has two choices. He could signal the woman to sit back down and smother him while he's short of breath, or he can continue to get as much air in as possible.

The woman could refuse to sit back down, and listen as her sub inhales and exhales large volumes of her fart.

When a woman uses facesitting in domination, she's showing her power and superiority over the face sittee. She "humiliates" her submissive in a pleasurable way, and she gets gratification just for doing it.

Facesitting women don't have to worry about whether they'll get their pussies or buttholes eaten out or not. All they have to do is place either into a sittee's mouth and demand oral service.

What is Facesitting? Part I Basic Definition

Face sitting is when one person sits on another person's face. Any gender can be the face sitter and any gender can be the facesit recipient. "Face chair" and "face sittee" are other terms for the person getting his or her face sat on. This article, or post, talks about a woman sitting on a man's or a woman's face.

Women sit on faces different ways.

Frontal Facesit:

In the frontal facesit, the woman sits flat on top of the man's face with her back to his feet. The face sittee could see the woman's face, belly and breasts, if she's receiving cunnilingus. If she wants annalingus, she could scoot forward so that her butthole is in the face sittee's mouth, and her vagina is on the face sittee's nose area.

Reverse Facesitting:

For reverse facesitting, the woman sits flat on top of the person's face while facing his feet. If she wants cunnilingus, she sits with her pussy in the person's mouth. If she wants annalingus, she sits with her butthole in the person's mouth.

Depending on the woman's butt size, or if her butthole is in the sittee's mouth, the sittee might be able to see her back and part of her hair. Or, it could be lights out, with her butthole smothering his nostrils, pussy smothering his mouth, and butt-crack smothering his nose bridge.

Sideways facesitting:

The guy is usually laying on a bench, or on the side of a bed or sofa. The woman treats the man's face like a seat cushion. She sits on his face with one of her shoulders pointing toward his feet, and the other one pointing the same direction the top of the face sittee's head is pointing to.

Full facesitting:

Full facesitting is when the woman's "center of butt gravity" is on top of the center of the man's face. There are differences in agreement on where that could be. But, there's a general rule of thumb. If she's reverse facesitting him, then her butthole would be on his nostrils or mouth. If she's frontal, or sideways, facesitting, then her butthole would be in the man's mouth.

The face chair's face takes the majority, or all, of the woman's sitting weight.

Partial facesitting:

When the woman does partial facesitting, her face sitting weight is offset from the center of the man's face. Examples of this include a woman's sitting on the man's forehead, on his chin or to the side of his "mouth to nostril" axis.

Extreme partial facesitting positions aren't really facesitting.

In some frontal facesitting pictures, the woman is actually sitting on man or woman's neck, upper chest and partly on the chin. In some sideways facesitting pictures, the woman's butt is actually hanging over the man or woman's cheeks. Her legs, and maybe her pussy, are smothering the sittee's face. In some reverse facesitting pictures, the woman's tailbone is on the man's chin.

These extreme cases are better labeled as chin sitting, or smothering via leg use.

The hover:

"Hover" is when the woman "sits" on the guy's face without applying her full weight; and without full butt to face contact. The mustache ride is an example. She's "hovering" above his face while he eats her out.

Full weight facesit:

This is where the woman sits flat on top of the man or woman's face, resting her full sitting weight on the sittee's face.

There's a reason to why a man's nose fits the butthole area of a woman's butt crack like a jigsaw puzzle. For women that are worried about breaking a man's nose; your butthole, and anal ring area, feel like a massive cushion. If you sit your butthole on the face chair's nostrils, you could put tremendous weight on his face, and you'd still not damage his nose.

Facesitting classification:

Facesitting is named after what the woman wears, or doesn't wear, while using a person's face as a seat cushion. Jean sitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face while wearing her jeans. Nylon facesitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face while wearing her nylons. Panty facesitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face while she's wearing her panties.

Bare bottom facesitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face with her bare butt.

Other forms of facesitting involve spandex facesitting, wedding dress facesitting, pants facesitting, leather facesitting, uniformed employee facesitting, formal suite facesitting, bikini facesitting, thong facesitting, etc.

Other "how to get facesat" posts on the internet

In 2007, I wrote an article on "how to get facesat" for publishing on ehow.com via a client website. I went through the normal "request and approve" process. Ehow approved the article, I wrote and submitted it, and ehow.com published it.

I wanted to share my knowledge so that more people can get their faces sat on. The more this knowledge spreads, and the more women engaged in it, the easier it'd be for the next facesit fan to get face sat. The ultimate goal is to make real facesitting a mainstream bedroom practice.

Since I posted on Mistress Destiny's Femdom Forums Websites, I started a post, and left a link to that Ehow article. The other posters loved it, and helped me rate it highly.

Then ehow.com took the article down. I asked a Mistress Destiny's Femdom Forum's moderator to delete the link to prevent ehow.com from receiving further "clicks." About a year and a half later, the same moderator started a thread dedicated to how to get facesat.

I took my ehow.com article draft, and expanded it to explain everything I wanted to explain. I posted the result as a detailed post to that thread, and helped it receive thousands of page hits. That's not the only sign that people liked that post.

I found a website that plagiarized other people's work. I found my post in their "facesitting mistress home" section. They didn't credit me as the author, or link back to Mistress Destiny's Femdom Forums. I post on Mistress Destiny's as "herfacechair." You'd notice my writing on the, "How to Get Facesat" post, as well as on my other posts on that site.

My writing there is also consistent with my writing here.

This other website also plagiarized from Wikipedia, taking their "facesitting" article, word for word, and posting it on their website. They failed to site Wikipedia as the source site.

I had to mention this here.

My "How to Get Facesat" post on this blog, and the one on Mistress Destiny's, is my own work. I'm the original author. Don't get me wrong, I like that the word is getting out. I just don't want the reader to think that I'm not being original or that I'm "stealing" other people's work. When it comes to writing, credit has to be assigned where it's due.