Does Facesitting Hurt?

Does facesitting hurt? That depends on how, and how long, a woman sits on a man's face. The facesitter and facesittee have different tolerances to this.

I've had anywhere from thin women to BBW women sit on my face. The vast majority of these facesittings were comfortable, no matter how heavy the woman was.

There are some tricks you could use to minimize, or eliminate, the pain that'd come with having a woman sit on your face.

One of the first things you want to do is to have her butthole and/or her anal ring smother your nostrils. Before she sits on your face, spread her butt cheeks apart. Since they're real soft, you want more of that part of her butt covering your face.

I've had a woman that weighed more than 200 pounds sit on my face this way. My face was snug and comfortable, and it didn't matter how much weight she applied to the sit, I felt comfortable. Her having extra padding in her butt helped out a lot, as that acted as a cushion.

The only worry I have, with women in this range, is in the breathing department. You could still breathe through your mouth if you lift her pussy up to breath. Many women are understanding in this area, and will help you catch your breath.

I had one woman, my height, sit on my face in a way that her tailbone put pressure on the part of my nose between my eyes. This pressure/pain disappeared when I slid her butthole into my mouth.

Slim/light women may come across as less painful sitters, but with less padding in their butts, their tailbone and butt bones are able to exert more pressure. Their weighing less compensated for this pressure, so it was still bearable.

The longer you have a woman sit on your face, the more her facesitting pressure may affect your eyes. You may start to "see" concentric colors radiate out from a certain point. You could relieve yourself of this issue by having her slide her butthole into your mouth.

So, whether facesitting hurts or not depends on whether or not the facesitting woman is applying a perfect facesitting fit or not. It also depends on her structure and on your tolerance level.

The vast majority of the facesitting that women have subjected me to has been erotic and comfortable. Women that have sat on my face perfectly managed to get me to orgasm just with the mere act of the facesitting... with no additional manipulating involved.

Ladies, Swiftly Conquer Me With a Perfect Facesit!

Ladies, what's the best way to sit on my face? By sitting on it the way you'd sit on anything else. I don't consider the "mustache ride," or the traditional sex definition of "face sit" as "facesitting."

When you sit on my face, don't hold anything back. Completely smother my face with your butt the way you'd smother a bar stool with your butt while having a drink at the bar. Here's how this could play out.

I lay on my back, looking up. You stand on the bed, then walk in my direction until you're over me. Your feet are on either side of me. I'm looking up at you. You turn around to face my feet, then drop your butt as if you were dropping a squat out in the woods.

Except, the only thing that you're relieving yourself of is your weight... transferred from you to my face as you take a seat.

Your butt gets closer to my face. My hands meet your butt right when you spread your butt cheeks. You complete your descent until your butthole smothers my nostrils, and your weight pushes the rest of your butt down hard on my face. You continue to release your weight on my face until you've put as much of your weight, as resting physics would allow you... as if you've just taken a seat on an imamate object.

You either remain in the sit-squat, or you swing your legs around and rest them on top of my legs. You chose whichever one is more comfortable for you.

Don't worry about how you smell down there.

I can't smell anything while you're sitting flat on top of my face. In order for anybody to be able to smell anything, there has to be air movement. With your butthole smothering my nostrils, there's no air movement. I can't smell anything.

In fact, I've never had to experience a woman's smell while she was sitting flat on top of my face with her full weight. All I had was feeling via my face, hearing, and breathing on her pussy. And get this. While your butt is "suffocating" my face, I can't taste anything. This means that I don't experience your smell, or taste, until you lift your butt from my face.

So should you be ashamed, or embarrassed, of how you smell down there while smothering my face with your butt? Hell no, that's part of the fun, that's part of what makes this an erotic experience... smelling your awesome ass scent seconds before it's lights out... then no smell...

You won't crush me this way either.

Trust me, you won't crush me if you sit on my face the way I describe it in this post. Your ass crack is the softest part of your butt. The more of your ass crack that you have smothering my face, the more I'm cushioned from your weight. Your butt has enough "meat" to where my face will be comfortable, no matter how much weight you put on me.

If you're overweight, the extra meat in your butt compensates, and gives my face an extra comfortable feeling.

Don't believe me?

I had a pro domina, a woman that was my height and who weighed 200 pounds, sit flat on top of my face with her full weight. She didn't stop with her own weight. She anchored her arms on the headboard, and pushed herself down on me. This resulted on her exerting her weight, plus the force of her push, on my face via her butt. This caused my head to sink deep into the pillows.

Had you watched the session, you wouldn't have seen any part of my face. You wouldn't have seen much of my head between her butt and the pillow. During parts of the session, you wouldn't have seen any part of my head.

Her doing this didn't phase me at all... in fact, the harder a woman sits on my face, the more erotic the experience.

Remember, sit on my face without regards to my comfort or dignity. Sit on my face like you want to humiliate me for all the wrong that the male gender has done to you. Your ass should be "eating" my face by the time you "settle down" on it. Ideally, parts of my face should be "reddish/pinkish" by the time you remove your butt from my face.

The better the quality of the facesit... the better the quality of my performing cunnilingus on you... the better the quality of the orgasm you give me if you give me a handjob while you're sitting on my face.

Here's a secret. Your sitting on my face, the way I like it, turns a switch on inside me that makes me instinctively eat you out... in a way that'll drive you up the wall.

If you sit on my face just the way I like it, like what I describe above, you'll end up becoming addictive.

What is facesitting? Part III facesitting domination

Facesitting domination is when the woman forces her butt on a man or woman's face. Other BDSM words used for facesitting are forced facesitting, forced cunnilingusbatio and queening. In regular BDSM scenes, dominas or mistresses whip, flog, or spank their slaves or submissives. They administer this "discipline" for arbitrary, real or imagined infractions.

In forced facesitting, punishment involves the woman forcing her butt on the slave's face. Instead of punishing her sub with pain, or trampling, she punishes her sittee with facesitting humiliation. This humiliation involves forcing her butt crack, or pussy, onto the submissive's nose or mouth.

Women also use facesitting in BDSM scenes involving objectification. The sittee's face becomes nothing more than a place to park her butt on, as if she were sitting on a regular chair, sofa cushion or bar stool.

When she's sitting on a person's face, she does the things she normally does when she sits down; eat a meal, watch TV, work on her computer, read a book, have a phone conversation with a friend or make out with someone. She usually plops, or sits, on the face as if it were no different than a regular chair; she doesn't give the sittee any kind of human acknowledgement. The sittee's face is her seat cushion.

Facesitting is also used for smothering. The woman sits on the person's face, and blocks the sittee's breathing passages. The woman could smother than person's nostrils with her butthole, and his mouth with her pussy; or she could smother the person's nostrils with her pussy, and his mouth with her butthole.

The facesitting woman prevents the sittee from breathing, and controls when he could breath. She suffocates her face chair, waits for him or her to struggle, waits beyond that, then lifts her butt or pussy a little. Or the sittee struggles free, breaths a few seconds, then gives in as the woman force facesits him again.

Many women aren't comfortable with breath control, so they use a different kind of breath play.

They sit on the man or woman's face, and completely seal the sittee's mouth with her pussy. Every time the sittee needs to breath, the facesitting woman lifts her butt up just a tad. The sittee's nose is still in the facesitting woman's buttcrack. The sittee has no other choice but to aggressively inhale while his or her nose is still in the dominant woman's butt.

The sitter can add to the humiliation. She could wait till her face chair struggles, then lift her butt just a little. Her pussy seals his mouth shut, and his nose is still inside her butt crack. The sittee inhales large gulps of precious air right when the facesitting woman farts. With no other way to breath, and no chance of moving somewhere else, the sittee has two choices. He could signal the woman to sit back down and smother him while he's short of breath, or he can continue to get as much air in as possible.

The woman could refuse to sit back down, and listen as her sub inhales and exhales large volumes of her fart.

When a woman uses facesitting in domination, she's showing her power and superiority over the face sittee. She "humiliates" her submissive in a pleasurable way, and she gets gratification just for doing it.

Facesitting women don't have to worry about whether they'll get their pussies or buttholes eaten out or not. All they have to do is place either into a sittee's mouth and demand oral service.

What is Facesitting? Part I Basic Definition

Face sitting is when one person sits on another person's face. Any gender can be the face sitter and any gender can be the facesit recipient. "Face chair" and "face sittee" are other terms for the person getting his or her face sat on. This article, or post, talks about a woman sitting on a man's or a woman's face.

Women sit on faces different ways.

Frontal Facesit:

In the frontal facesit, the woman sits flat on top of the man's face with her back to his feet. The face sittee could see the woman's face, belly and breasts, if she's receiving cunnilingus. If she wants annalingus, she could scoot forward so that her butthole is in the face sittee's mouth, and her vagina is on the face sittee's nose area.

Reverse Facesitting:

For reverse facesitting, the woman sits flat on top of the person's face while facing his feet. If she wants cunnilingus, she sits with her pussy in the person's mouth. If she wants annalingus, she sits with her butthole in the person's mouth.

Depending on the woman's butt size, or if her butthole is in the sittee's mouth, the sittee might be able to see her back and part of her hair. Or, it could be lights out, with her butthole smothering his nostrils, pussy smothering his mouth, and butt-crack smothering his nose bridge.

Sideways facesitting:

The guy is usually laying on a bench, or on the side of a bed or sofa. The woman treats the man's face like a seat cushion. She sits on his face with one of her shoulders pointing toward his feet, and the other one pointing the same direction the top of the face sittee's head is pointing to.

Full facesitting:

Full facesitting is when the woman's "center of butt gravity" is on top of the center of the man's face. There are differences in agreement on where that could be. But, there's a general rule of thumb. If she's reverse facesitting him, then her butthole would be on his nostrils or mouth. If she's frontal, or sideways, facesitting, then her butthole would be in the man's mouth.

The face chair's face takes the majority, or all, of the woman's sitting weight.

Partial facesitting:

When the woman does partial facesitting, her face sitting weight is offset from the center of the man's face. Examples of this include a woman's sitting on the man's forehead, on his chin or to the side of his "mouth to nostril" axis.

Extreme partial facesitting positions aren't really facesitting.

In some frontal facesitting pictures, the woman is actually sitting on man or woman's neck, upper chest and partly on the chin. In some sideways facesitting pictures, the woman's butt is actually hanging over the man or woman's cheeks. Her legs, and maybe her pussy, are smothering the sittee's face. In some reverse facesitting pictures, the woman's tailbone is on the man's chin.

These extreme cases are better labeled as chin sitting, or smothering via leg use.

The hover:

"Hover" is when the woman "sits" on the guy's face without applying her full weight; and without full butt to face contact. The mustache ride is an example. She's "hovering" above his face while he eats her out.

Full weight facesit:

This is where the woman sits flat on top of the man or woman's face, resting her full sitting weight on the sittee's face.

There's a reason to why a man's nose fits the butthole area of a woman's butt crack like a jigsaw puzzle. For women that are worried about breaking a man's nose; your butthole, and anal ring area, feel like a massive cushion. If you sit your butthole on the face chair's nostrils, you could put tremendous weight on his face, and you'd still not damage his nose.

Facesitting classification:

Facesitting is named after what the woman wears, or doesn't wear, while using a person's face as a seat cushion. Jean sitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face while wearing her jeans. Nylon facesitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face while wearing her nylons. Panty facesitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face while she's wearing her panties.

Bare bottom facesitting involves a woman sitting on a person's face with her bare butt.

Other forms of facesitting involve spandex facesitting, wedding dress facesitting, pants facesitting, leather facesitting, uniformed employee facesitting, formal suite facesitting, bikini facesitting, thong facesitting, etc.